Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Family Day

So I apologize.  My weekly email has been late a day.  Yesterday was Family Day in Alberta.  Which means that we didn't have P-Day, and we weren't supposed to be tracting.  So we helped Hugh and were with him most of the day.  It was good.  This week we also helped our investigator Christine, who broke her arm recently.  There was quite a day of snow, about 6 inches over night, and she finally asked us to come help her.  That was a big step for her, because she hadn't really ever asked us for help before, we always just kind of show up after it snows.  But it was really good to help her, and she really appreciated it.  Earlier, we had brought over cookies and a card letting her know we had heard and hoped her arm got better.  It was really good for her, and surprisingly, Chinese people tend to like Chocolate chip cookies.  Everyone that has had them has said they were good.  Christine asked for the recipe.  I totally did not expect it, but it has been fun to see. 
This week we did lots of finding, and we found one Chinese girl who works at a phone case stand in one of the malls who wanted to talk to us.  She was a little interested in our message, but she is very busy.  We are trying to find a time to meet with her, because she shows some real promise, and we are excited. 
We also were able to talk to the three new investigators we were to get this week.  One it turns out does not live in our area, so we were disappointed in that.  Another will move into our area in two weeks, and he is awesome.  We are excited for that.  And the third is in China taking care of family business, so we were unable to meet with him this week, but he is also really awesome. 
This week has been a good week for me.  The temperature goes up and down, snow falls and melts, ice forms, and I get all the more stressed to drive.  My one consolation is that Canadian drivers are the nicest drivers I have met.  These people are so nice, and its good to have that when I neither know the area well, nor how to drive on the snow.  But, it does confirm some stereotypes, at least in my mind.

Anyway, I hope everyone is doing well, I miss you all and pray for everyone of you.

Monday, February 9, 2015

Driving, The New Year Fireside, and Success

This week has been a very good week for Elder Liu and myself.  We found out this week we have 3 new people we will start meeting with in the next 3 weeks.  Which is pretty great since we haven't had a really solid new investigator since I got here.  I have no doubt this is connected to our renewed effort to be more obedient and work together as a companionship.
This week we had our Chinese New Year Fireside, which was great.  There were so many people there, it was great.  Lots of people I had met through English class, and they brought friends.  It was a great chance for all our members and investigators to get together, which was awesome.  And I got to watch Elder Liu give a talk again (this time in Mandarin).  And then we had food afterwards.  It was very good, but I didn't get to see everything, I was caught up talking to people for most of the time.  But it was a great experience.

Other than that, I have been driving this week, during snow.  It is difficult, but not as bad as I may have thought.  It was fun to be out during some of the storms, although I didn't particularly want to go fast when I was.  Not that that bothers me or the vehicle coordinator.  Elder Liu will just have to learn to live with it.

Anyway, I'm grateful for all the prayers, and all the support of everyone.  It makes a huge difference in the experience I am having.  Hope you are all doing fantastic!
New Year Fireside



Monday, February 2, 2015

Driving and More Snow

This week has been a good week.  With transfers, there are a few familiar faces that are gone now.  Elder Nelson, one of the Londonderry Elders, left to a new area and so asked for us to help him with getting ready for that on Tuesday.  We were able to, and then we had to go to an appointment with Helen.  Helen is doing really well, she is starting to show more and more interest in things about the Book of Mormon and other things.  Which is really exciting for us.

This week we are gearing up for our Chinese New Year fireside, which is set to be lots of fun.  Elder Liu will give a talk, and so I'm excited to see how he does this time.  But we have been giving out lots of flyers to anyone who speaks Chinese.  Its nice to have a specific activity to invite these people to rather than an English Church meeting...  I think the work here will accelerate rapidly, so I am excited for that.  We are gathering members, and we are still waiting for what I see as the critical mass.  But when it happens, its going to go so big.  I get really excited for it.
This week I started driving, and thats a totally new experience.  I am constantly reminded (mostly by family) how little I know about driving on the snow.  So, needless to say, I am trying to take it very carefully.
Other than that, yesterday we helped an investigator who had badly sprained his leg to go to the hospital and see a doctor.  When he went to actually talk to the doctor, the security asked Elder Liu and I to stay behind, and we did.  We stayed for quite a while.  And in the waiting room there was a TV playing the Super Bowl.  Its weird to think the only time I've watched part the Super Bowl on Sunday was on my mission....  But really, I tried not to watch.  And I realized why we can't, its too dang distracting!

But it has been a good week.  We are doing well in Edmonton, surviving in the snowy flatlands.  I truly miss the mountains in Arizona, and the beauty of the desert, but I am getting used to the beauty of the North.

Elder Nelson (not T.J.'s companion)  taking pictures of the river view

River View

Downtown Edmonton


Monday, January 26, 2015

Transfers (The Second Round)

So as we eagerly awaited transfer calls this morning, I dealt with a nervous Elder Liu, who would not stop asking me for the phone.  Until I hid it under my leg.  He didn't want it after that for some reason.  But the big news of the week: We're both staying right where we are.  So that's our big news.  Elder Liu is excited, he really didn't want to leave the North.  Which is probably good, we have a few investigators and people we meet with that don't like my Mandarin, so they need him around.
This week has been pretty good though.  A few highlights:  Elder Liu hit a light pole.  On Wednesday, there was freezing rain, that left the streets like an ice rink.  It was really bad.  And we decided to drive around doing finding.  Not our best idea.  Needless to say, we were rewarded for our decision.  It's not very bad, its more a pain to deal with than anything else.  Also, I may start driving soon because of this.  So there's something new.
Elder Liu has been a little sick this week, so we spent a lot of time in the apartment again.  I've tried to help him wake up (I squirted him in the face with my squirt bottle one day just to mix things up, and he hated it) but he still has problems with sleep and health in general.
We did teach a referral we received from the Londonderry Sisters this week.  His name is Steven and he is interested in learning about the cultures of religion.  And he was really willing to meet with us, and to start reading the Book of Mormon.  We are so excited for him.  Other than this, we are working on inviting people to our Chinese New Year Fireside, but most people already have a celebration they are going to, so that has been a little frustrating.  Still, we are working on getting people there. 
One thing I've learned to appreciate and use more this week is planning.  I've seen a huge difference in the last little bit as I've made and stuck to plans.  It is truly an inspired pattern of missionary work and living.

That's pretty much my week.  I hope everyone is doing well.   I love and miss you all!

Elder Ethington

Monday, January 19, 2015

Cookies, Toilets, and Warmer Temperatures

So this week has been really good.  On Last P-Day, Elder Liu and I decided to use a gift card someone had given us after we had done some service for them.  We quickly found out that it had more than the $20 the lady who had given it to us had thought. It instead had the full $50 that was on it.  So we got a week of free groceries.  In light of this, I determined to buy some ingredients for making cookies.  So I made two batches of cookies this week.  Both turned out all right, although the dough for the second batch was sketchy.  But it was alright. 

This week we tried to help an investigator family for another set of Elders as they prepared their basement for someone to move into it.  But we had issues with scheduling and dinners and were only able to help a little.  But it was good to offer service.

I also learned this week how to take apart a stretchy watch band.  Our Less Active Member has one that is too big, so I experimented on mine, and found out how to make it shorter, so I will do that for her this week.  And I will fix an issue she is having with her toilet.  So, lots of service recently.


Elder Liu and I are still trying to find more people to teach, but this Saturday, sisters in one of the wards found a Chinese man named Steven who was interested in learning about religion.  We will meet with him this week, probably on Saturday, and we are really excited.  We are still trying to find good ways to tract or to talk to those Chinese people that live in the Northern end of Edmonton.  I think this has been the most frustrating for me, not experiencing lots of success this way. 
We did meet with President Manion and the language missionaries for a language meeting this week, and he told us there is another Mandarin Elder coming soon, who is from China, and can speak both Mandarin and Cantonese.  I've told President I'd like to try to learn Cantonese, so I am really excited for Elder Wu to get here.  Anyway, I've got to go, I love and miss you all! 


Studying in his new hat.



Crumbly Cookie Dough
Cookies!



Dinner at the Jensen's with seven other elders.


Monday, January 12, 2015

Another Week Down

So here I am at the end of another week.  With Hugh's baptism last week, we haven't had any consistent investigators, so we have been on full finding detail. But we are still working on finding people to teach.  We do have a few less actives to work with, and definitely Hugh.  We did receive happy news from him, he found a job this week!  In a sushi restaurant.  With sharp knives.  That he got a nasty cut from on the first day.  But he was totally excited for work.
Its been a warm week, but we did get some snow, which we always enjoy.  It makes driving a little more fun at least.  I am teaching Elder Liu how to properly respond to skidding to a stop with a car in front of us.  I realized he didn't know when he grabbed and yanked the emergency brake....  Fortunately, no accidents.  But I am still on watch.
In other news, we officially are allowed to start using Facebook in our finding and teaching efforts!  So that's really exciting for us.  Some of the missionaries here have been hearing that would happen for their whole mission, so we are still a little skeptical on iPads, but we do have Facebook.
Other than that, there hasn't been a lot going on here.   I got a new hat and gloves, pictures when I can get to a computer with a working USB port.  Also, this week was good when we had a lesson with Hugh, and I felt  prompted to share a certain video with him, that I feel helped and made a big impact on him.  Just another testimony building moment.

Anyway, missing you all!  Have a great winter!

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

New Year's and the Temple

Happy New Years Everyone!  This week has been great!  Hugh was baptized on Saturday, and that was a great experience for everyone involved.  Elder Liu was able to baptize him, and Todd Oliver, the Elders Quorum President in the Kingsway YSA ward confirmed him on Sunday.  It was a great chance, and I loved talking to Hugh afterwards about how he felt and the whole experience.  I am so excited for the journey he has started.
This week we have been pretty cold, which presents some challenges to proselyting.  It is not very safe to be outside for very long sometimes, and that can be a big concern when we don't have set appointments.  But having the car permanently does decrease that... a little bit.  Elder Liu and I have been doing lots of finding.  After we teach Hugh all of the Recent Convert lessons, we will not have anyone left to teach!  Well, hopefully we get in  contact with a few of the people Elder Liu was teaching before I got here and be able to meet with them.  But I am really hoping that we can find a family to teach.  We have run into a few while doing phone book finding, so that has been fun, but no one to accept return appointments.  So hopefully that changes pretty quick.  Other than that, not a terrible lot has happened this week.  I was on exchanges with Elder Jeffs again, which I enjoyed.  But we keep doing exchanges on Tuesday-Wednesday, which means that language study messes things up.
Anyway, I hope everyone is having a great start to their new year.  Miss you all!
Elder Ethington


Hugh was baptized January 3, by Elder Liu



This picture was taken New Year's Eve at 4pm. The days are short!


On Monday, January 5, the whole mission attended the temple with President and Sister Manion